Something that just started getting to me is how much Brady works at home. Like I don’t get it. How much work is there to do? Even with all of my little projects and big projects at work, there is no way I could work for 12 hours a day at the office and then come home and do 2 to 3 more hours of work. It just doesn’t make sense.
So now I feel like he must be doing something else at work besides work. Like Sydney and Jessica and Hailey and whoever else. I know Jessica doesn’t work there anymore, but still. And it doesn’t help that his phone semi blows up in the evenings too. Who is texting him that much after 8pm? I don’t like that. I mean, he gets texts back to back to fucking back. It’s ridiculous.
The only plan we had for the weekend was a Halloween party on Saturday night, but I assumed we’d hang out on Friday too. I didn’t hear from Brady all day so I texted him at around 9pm saying, “What are you up to?”
A few minutes later, Brady texted back saying, “Hey! I’m having sushi in Old Town. What about you?”
The fuck? “Hey!”? Like you don’t know me? Sushi with who? Where was my invite? I want sushi.
I decided not to respond and to just find my own plans for the night. Luke had texted me early in the week about getting drinks and I decided to take him up on the offer. He had plans of going bar hopping with some of his friends and they were all dressing up, but I was in no mood. Instead I wore a skin tight plunging black bodysuit, ripped black jeans, a cropped black bomber and maroon lipstick. We all met at a restaurant for apps and drinks and I was super disappointed to see Stacey sitting at the table. Do y’all remember Stacey, who I used to work with at my last job? She was so annoying. But she squealed when she saw me.
“I didn’t believe it when Lukey told me you were coming!” She stood up and I saw that she was also wearing an all black outfit with purple lips.
I rolled my eyes. “Hi Stacey.” We hugged.
Luke (dressed as the Joker) was also there with his friend Jason (dressed as Batman) and Elaina (dressed as a white cat. Yawn). We ordered fries, burrata and tuna sliders.
“I feel like I haven’t seen you in forever. What’s new?” Luke asked.
The last time I hung out with Luke, Nick was still a thing so we had a lot to catch up on.
“I need a new job,” I began.
“Is this because of your boss or no?” Luke asked.
“Among other things. Have you heard of anything?”
He shook his head. “If I did, I’d be all over it. I’m ready to go too.”
I’m actually surprised Luke has lasted as long as he has.
“So Jason?” I whispered, gesturing to Batman next to him. “Coordinating costumes must mean things are serious.”
Luke shook his head. “We’re going slow. The costumes are a coincidence.”
I knew that probably wasn’t entirely true, but I accepted it.
“I’m seeing Brady again,” I said.
Luke’s eyes lit up which was Kendra’s exact reaction when I told her. For some reason I thought everyone would roll their eyes and say, “Why waste your time? You already know how this is going to end.” Which I guess is what I’m thinking.
“Finally! How did that happen?”
“I really don’t know. We went back and forth for a few months, but this we’ve been back together for a few weeks.”
“For good this time?”
“I mean, that’s the goal, isn’t it?”
“I love it. He is such a nice guy, Reese. Such a nice guy.”
And I wanted to go into how I don’t know if trust him and yadda yadda, but it didn’t seem like the time. So I agreed.
After food and a couple of drinks we walked down the street to a bar with louder music and more dancing. I got hit on a couple times by actual really hot guys and I was a bit concerned because I wasn’t interested. And I was also kind of mad because I couldn’t guarantee that Brady would fight off hot girls hitting on him. It’s not like we’d agreed to be exclusive.
I ended up calling an Uber around 1:00 am because I was tired and bored and couldn’t stop thinking about my box Cheez-Its I had waiting for me. Plus Stacey had ditched us for a guy she met on Bumble so I was third wheeling anyway.
On Saturday morning, I checked my phone hoping to at least have some drunk texts from Brady, but I didn’t. The last thing he’d said to me was that he was at sushi and hadn’t even followed up when I left him on read. Rude. And to me that meant he was having fun with someone else and wasn’t thinking about me at all. I got up and showered then got a mani/pedi. Brady called as I was leaving the salon.
“Hey,” I answered, making sure he could hear the cars and commotion outside so he knew I was out doing something.
“Hey you!” he said in this weird affectionate voice that I’ve never heard before. “What are you doing?”
“Just out and about,” I replied.
“Will you be free soon? I want to see you.”
I smiled. “Maybe. Can I call you back?”
With the ball now in my court, I slowly walked home, stopping in several stores to get a new fall scarf, earmuffs, gloves, a cookie jar, a face mask, perfume, and a pumpkin spice bone for Tucker. I had to call an Uber home. I got back to my apartment about an hour and a half later and hopped in the shower. I washed my hair, shaved my entire body and then I got out. Once I was dressed, I texted Brady, “Finally home. Want to meet?”
“Yes. Meet at my place. I’ll take you to breakfast,” he replied.
When I got to Brady’s, he pulled me into the biggest hug like he hadn’t seen me in years. It was like those military reunions you see on the news. We pulled away and he said, “I missed you,” while still gripping my waist tightly.
“Did you?” I said back.
Brady nodded. “I’m glad you’re here now.”
He needed to get dressed so I waited in his bed while he did so. I texted Kendra and watched a couple of YouTube videos and then Brady walked to the edge of the bed fully dressed in jeans and a white button up with a sweater over it. He actually looked really, really good.
“How was your night?” I finally asked.
“It was good.” Brady reached under the blanket to rub my legs. “How was yours?”
“Fine,” I said back.
We fooled around for a while and then got dressed again for breakfast. It was weird that Brady had no interest in telling me about his night and who he was with even after I told him about mine and seeing Stacey. And I wasn’t about to keep bringing it up so he would think I cared.
After breakfast, we stopped by Binny’s to get liquor for the party and also just to keep at the house for personal use. We spent $300 and had to take two trips to get it all in the house.
Even though it was a Halloween party, Brady and I couldn’t be bothered to dress up in costumes. I, again, went with an all black look with Alexander Wang booties and falsies. The party was at one of Brady’s coworker’s friend’s house in the West Loop. I was actually quite impressed with the amount of people in quality costumes, not just a bunch of slutty black cats walking around. And that townhouse was decorated really sophisticatedly like the owners had spent some real money on Halloween decorations.
Do y’all remember that one time I was out with my friend Lexi and we got super drunk and slept at some random guy’s apartment? One of the guys was there. I can’t even remember his name, but he recognized me immediately.
“Hey! Reese?” he said, patting me on the shoulder.
I knew I recognized him from somewhere, but I couldn’t place where at first.
“Hey! How are you?” I replied, hoping he wasn’t someone I made out with while drunk.
“Good! What’s up? Where’s your friend?” he said.
“Lexi isn’t here. This is my friend Brady!” They shook hands and I wondered if I actually just friend zoned Brady.
“Hey, what’s up man? How are you?” the dude said.
We stood there and talked about how we knew the hosts, costumes and football and pickup trucks. Have I ever mentioned how much I talk? I didn’t know the guy’s name, but discovered that both of our moms are blonde, but didn’t pass down that trait to us.
When he walked away, Brady said, “How do you know him?”
“I think I met him once when I was out with Lexi. I don’t know,” I replied.
Brady gave me a weird look, but didn’t say anything else. I was actually kind of amused that he was interested in my relationship with some random guy. Keep him on his toes.
We ended up getting completely hammered and leaving the party to go to a bar. I didn’t realize it, but we went to meet up with some of Brady’s friends. Brady is besties with this doctor named Alex, who is super single and I’ve offered to wing woman for. He’s cute and nerdy in a Brady kind of way. But not great with women, which I love about him.
I spent the majority of the night trying to scout of girls for Alex, who had the nerve to be picky. He’d be like, “I don’t like her hair,” and “She’s too big.” Like okay dude. Don’t be annoying.
Eventually we took our party back to Brady’s – Alex, Craig, Craig’s girlfriend and this annoying lawyer girl named Amy. She kept being like, “In law school we did this,” and “In law school this happened.” At one point in the evening, she started a sentence with, “When I was in law school,” for the one millionth time and I cut her off.
“Wait, you went to law school?!”
She looked at me like I am actually mentally handicapped.
They all smoked and we hung out until 4:45am. I woke up at 9am, curled into a ball on the armchair. Alex was passed out on the couch with a bag of Doritos on his chest. Brady wasn’t around and you know what the first thing I thought was? He’s probably in bed with Amy. Amy! Why would he even be in bed with her? I hate that my mind immediately goes there.
I found Brady sleeping on the bed in all of his clothes with Tucker. It was honestly so fucking adorable, I wish I would’ve taken a picture. I went to the side of the bed to wake him up and Brady opened one eye to look at me.
“Good morning, princess,” he greeted me groggily.
Brady never calls me any pet names and certainly not “princess” so y’all know what I thought? He must have another girl that he calls princess and it accidentally slipped out when he saw me.
We got up and cleaned and then I made smoothies and avo toast for us. We spent the majority of the day watching movies, eating and playing with Tucker. Toward the end of the day when I was thinking of packing up my things and going home, I decided to have a conversation with Brady. We were laying on the opposite ends of the couch with our legs intertwined with each other.
Brady was looking on his phone and I said, “So…” and he looked up. “Are we like back together? What are we doing?”
He looked confused. “What do you mean?”
I had to force myself not to get irritated. The question was clear. “I mean, are we friends hooking up or are we a couple?”
Brady grabbed my knee and it was actually so, so sweet coming from him. “No, we are more than friends. I hope.”
“So we are back together then,” I said.
“I don’t think we should force ourselves into anything. I don’t want to do that,” he said.
“You don’t want to force anything?” I echoed, trying to comprehend what that even meant.
“I just think the way we have been recently is perfect. I don’t want things to go haywire…again.”
I just stared at him for a moment, not even sure how to take that. When were things ever haywire? Brady started to say something else, but I started speaking at the same time and he let me finish.
“Are you seeing any other girls?”
“No…”
I waited a moment for him to complete his answer, but that was it.
“And you don’t want to? You just want to be with me?”
“Correct.”
“But you don’t want to force anything.”
“Can we just have fun without the pressure? I don’t want to fight with you about getting married. I just want to be with you.”
And even if it wasn’t exactly what I wanted to hear, it was sweet and I knew Brady was being open and honest which he never used to be. I appreciated that.
“Okay.”
I was just thinking, “We are getting older and can’t be just having fun anymore.” But I wasn’t about to have that argument.
“I’m sorry. I want things to be better now than they were before,” he said.
“We have to communicate better, that’s the biggest thing,” I said.
Brady nodded.
“Meaning if you are going to hang out with your friends until 4am instead of hanging out with me like we planned, you should let me know.”
“Okay. I can do that. That won’t happen again.”
“Just like, don’t give me a reason to be mad.”
Brady smirked. “I don’t try to. No one wants to be on your bad side.”
The whole “I don’t want to force anything” comment didn’t sit well with me, but I was glad that Brady was honest about wanting to be with me and not any other girls.
The next morning, I was sitting at my desk getting ready to begin my day and Brady texted me.
“Miss you,” he said.
I replied, “Just to be clear, you’re not interested in getting married?”
He didn’t respond for a while and I was kind of afraid that I’d pushed the wrong button.
About an hour later, Brady said, “I don’t want to spoil our relationship by focusing too much on marriage. If it happens naturally then great. I’m sorry if that’s not the answer you want to hear, but I think if we try it this way we will both be much more happy.”
I was just excited that he used the word “relationship.” I didn’t realize I even wanted that. And as much as I didn’t want to admit, he is probably right.
Later on in the day, I wanted to make myself a bit more miserable so I asked Brady to tell me about the girls he dated while we weren’t together.
“Really, Reese? Does it matter?” he said back.
And I guess it really didn’t, but I still said, “Yes.”
He claimed he had drinks once with Aisha, but she was “crazy” and “clingy” and they never hung out again. And then there was the girl who he went on a date to the steakhouse with – someone he met through a coworker. No chemistry and they didn’t hang out again. And that was it, he said. I wanted to ask how many girls he hooked up with/who, but I knew that it would actually upset me. And honestly, does it matter?
Brady was super sweet and attentive all week, making sure to always check in and let me know when he was getting off and what he was doing. Don’t ask me why or how it happened, but he even paid off my credit cards. I no longer have credit card debt. It was so generous of him.
On Saturday, we woke up and made a shopping list for the grocery store. As we walked through the aisles, Brady was texting and on his phone more than normal. I started getting really irritated then I thought maybe he’s texting Hunter or Alex to talk about sports or something. And then his phone rang.
“Hey, how are you?” Brady answered. “No, no problem. What’s the issue?”
He stood there with a pensive look on his face and one hand in his pocket.
“Oh, that’s tough. I’m sorry that happened to you. Is Steven there?”
“Are you able to get into the database or do you not have access? I can give you my log in information, no problem.”
Brady walked away until he was out of the aisle and out of sight. Like why would you walk away? It’s not like I cared about his log in information or would be able to do anything with it. I continued shopping alone, picking up things for breakfast and dinner and lunches for work. I found Brady in the international foods aisle, trying to pick out rice. He was still on the phone though.
“Yeah, I’m a bit frustrated by it too, but once we get consistent, it’ll be better.” He glanced up and saw me. “Well, I’m glad I could help, Sydney. No problem at all. Have a good rest of your weekend.”
Brady hung up the phone.
“Who was on the phone?” I asked innocently. I felt one of my eyes twitch.
“My coworker. Things always fall apart on the weekends,” he said.
So naturally I went home and scoured LinkedIn until I found this Sydney (I couldn’t find her on Facebook). She’s an intern at Brady’s hospital. I vaguely remember Brady telling me that he’s taken on a lot more responsibility at work and I wondered if that includes training the interns. Her profile picture is a half body shot with her wearing a tight cobalt blue dress under a white coat. The picture is too small and grainy to tell if she’s pretty, but she does have a hot little body and long dark hair.
So now I’m worried about Sydney and I fucking hate it. I think about how often Brady stays late at work, but then comes home and works. Meaning he’s probably not actually staying late – he’s probably wining and dining Sydney or hooking up with her in broom closets and then comes home and actually has to do his work.
And I feel like if I can’t even trust him at work then I have no business being with him and/or I need serious help.
Love y’all!
hot mess in high heels. 
I was all excited by the title of this post…… until I saw… Brady… is the one that paid it off. I mean, come on??? Really? Even if he offered, that is a) weird and b) would kind of piss me off. Be an independent woman, Reese. Your debt = your responsibility. I personally have zero credit card debt – because I am responsible and make sure it’s always paid on time – IN FULL. My daddy or boyfriend doesn’t pay it off for me.
Also, I do think you need to start seeing your therapist again. Your insecurities are going to swallow you whole if you don’t try to get it under control.
sorry to disappoint!
Just curious but how much was the credit card debt? I feel the same way as N that it’s so weird he would just pay that off for you.
I’m so happy you finally had the relationship talk with Brady! There’s so much positive progress going on (: but I still think you should try seeing a therapist to work out your insecurities about Brady talking to other women
less than $10k. it came after a conversation about buying a house.
I know it would def bother you to know who he hooked up with so good for you for not bothering asking! And the fact that he didn’t “really” date anyone while you were apart says a lot about how he feels about you. Please don’t let yourself get jealous and crazy about his work, he has always worked this much. If it still bothers you just tell him it makes you uncomfortable how much he texts/calls Sydney, your feelings are valid so that’s totally okay. I agree with Brady, let it happen naturally, I’m so happy to see y’all are back on track, keep us updated!
I can’t even help being jealous, I don’t know why!
You are more jealous than ever, it seems. He keeps coming back to YOU. You’re the one he wants. The minute you found out you were back together, you started asking him about his past which is the part that scares him.
When in doubt, ask someone if you shoukd send it.
REEEEEESE!!! Stop! Brady is with you! Trust in that or you are going to push him away again. Do not let your jealousy get the better of you.
I really believe you should go back to therapy. Just you. Figure out where all this jealousy comes from. Therapy can be so helpful! But don’t bring Brady into it. Just figure out your problems. I think it would be good for you.
I am wishing you all the best!!!!! xoxo.
I’m gonna go back soon, promise. 😘
So glad you’re back together and really hoping it works for you. Ask Brady about his work…who his team is, what his responsibilities are, etc. Get details and make it something you value knowing about because it does consume so much of his time. I think that will open up a more natural conversation for you to get a little more comfortable with his day to day demands and who’s calling and why. Right now you’re just speculating and creating your own narrative. And…I’m pretty dedicated to my job but I also have boundaries of when to let go. But I have friends and family that have different approaches and expectations for themselves. So I don’t think it’s all that weird/suspicious he works from gone so much…it’s becomjng our culture, but I definitely get not being able to understand it either. Also…cc debt can eat you alive. So nice of Brady. And honestly how you and Brady approach finances is totally up to what you’re both comfortable with.
*works from home
I ask about his work, but he conveniently doesn’t mention any of his coworkers or anything like that. but I will ask more and try to get more information.
I have to pry information out of my husband when it comes to his job. He keeps everything separate in his life. Doesn’t want to talk about work at home and doesn’t talk about Home at work. I swear his coworkers wouldn’t know he was married if he didn’t have a ring. However he likes his job and makes him happy and fulfilled so I always ask him about how his day was and what he’s working on because I’m invested in his happiness in general and his work is part of that. Don’t give up easily.
you’re right. I’ll ask open ended questions and try harder. 🙂
I also agree that it’s weird Brady would pay your credit card debt and that you would let him. You realize that you racked up all those charges and you’ll never learn how to manage your money if Brady and your dad keep bailing you out? It’s time to grow up. Maybe when you go to therapy about your insecurities they can help you fix your shopping addiction you clearly can’t afford.
By the way I’m not trying to be rude but I think you need some tough love.
when has my dad ever bailed me out?
Girl! I have a few old lady words of wisdom, but I’m doing school work for my final master’s course and will give you my $.02 soon!
Hi Reese! Well, in all honesty you and Brady have enough history together, if he wants to pay off your credit card debt, then why the hell not. As for the jealousy, you have GOT to get a grip on that shit or you will push him away. Go see your therapist. Work on this. It’s true what another commenter said: he keeps coming back to YOU. He’s with YOU.That phone call at the grocery store did NOT sound like anything other than a work call. His walking away means nothing. He clearly wants to be with you, and if you want to be with him, you’ll make a concerted effort to try and get this jealousy sorted out. I’m rooting for you guys!
thank you. 🙂
Could you ship me your shoes (I’ll take some clothes too) when you’re done with them? Hehe! I wish I could have style. Is it weird Brady paid off your credit cards? Maybe a bit. 10k is a lot. I’m struggling to pay mine off and it’s only 3k. But I just had a baby and cancer so I guess I’ve been busy with other things. I don’t think it makes you less independent. You’re very capable of taking care of yourself. I learnt a long time ago that if you can’t trust your partner it won’t work. I hope you guys can figure it out but he needs to be open too. Good luck girl!
aww, I guess I really don’t have an excuse to have that much credit card debt then?
Sure you do. We’re different people living different lives. Don’t ever feel like you need to fit into some cookie cutter. You could work on a few things sure. We all could. 😊
🙂
It seems pretty clear when I read these entries ( this one made me particularly sad for you) that you do NOT love or value yourself the way that you should If you did, jealousy would not exist in your mind. If you did, you wouldn’t feel insecure about possibly losing this man because you are reading into and creating things that aren’t there. Please, please, please go see a therapist. Or read a book about learning to love yourself and why it’s important. It’s the only way this thing with Brady can possibly work out in a healthy way.
any book recommendation? I have a ton of free time on my hands.
Take a look at this one. Please ignore that it’s sold from a “spiritual” standpoint, if that’s a turn off: “How to Love Yourself (and sometimes other people)”, Meggan Watterson and Lodro Rinzler. I’ve read other books by Lodro and he has a voice that is easy to relate to.
Another thing – I don’t care if Brady paid off your cards, it’s the mention that it happened because you two are talking about buying a house that’s a red flag, especially when it took this much time and effort to just be able to have a conversation about whether you’re exclusive. When you are still feeling this way about your relationship, it would be a big mistake. Huge. Don’t even think about buying a home with someone you don’t feel solid with. Band-aid for a bullet wound. That’s just my two cents.
we weren’t talking about buying a house together, we were just speaking in general. I’m not that crazy, don’t worry!
It’s a little harsh to say that you can’t ever feel jealous if you “love yourself”. I love myself, but I’d feel nervous if I thought my bf had a thing for a coworker. Defs agree that therapy is a good move for you, but don’t get caught up in the narrative that you can’t be loved if you don’t love yourself first. Totally damaging. Rooting for you Reese!!
No, it wasn’t harsh. I didn’t say someone “couldn’t be loved” if they have self-love issues, you are completely twisting what I meant. I was saying that if she valued herself and loved herself the way she should the way we all should, thinking that every phone call, every text message, every not immediately not returned message wouldn’t instantly turn to insecurity. AND that she might even decide that it’s not worth it to be in a relationship where she sees those things repeatedly happen because she deserves better. Because she values herself. I wasn’t being harsh at all.
Reese, you need to let go of your insecurities and learn to trust Brady. If you keep on coming up with these irrational scenarios and think the worse of Brady whenever he isn’t around or on the phone then you are setting up this relationship for disaster.
I personally feel that having Brady pay off your debt is not a good thing. It’s similar to when you’d use him credit card to buy whatever you chose. We feel more validated and good about ourselves when we do things on our own, makes us more responsible too. If I were you I would find a way to pay Brady back for this very generous gesture.
if I was able to pay it off myself, then I would’ve. trust! I’ll pay him back, don’t worry
I think everyone can relate to feeling jealous, at some point in their lives. The guy I’m seeing isn’t even my bf, but I still end up asking about other girls and it drives me crazy! I don’t know what makes us want to punish ourselves by asking…
It’s good you recognize your insecurities. That’s the first step in getting over them. You’re making progress, it just takes time. And a lot of work. So kudos on putting in that hard work, because most people just give up.
how do you not drive yourself crazy??
Oh, I drive myself crazy all the damn time. I was literally just texting with him and asked if he’s hooked up with anyone recently since I’ve been out of commission because of having surgery a week ago. He never responded. So I texted him like, 3 more fucking times. All I keep thinking about is that he’s not responding, SO HE MUST BE WITH ANOTHER GIRL! Ughhhhhh! So I feel for ya! It’s good you had the conversation with Brady about what you guys are. That’s a hard conversation to have. You don’t want to “ruin” what you guys have, but you also don’t want to sell yourself short. You deserve all the happiness in the world, whether it comes from Brady or someone else.
Oh, as for the credit card debt, that’s between the two of you. I was with my ex for 4 years and he used to pay for pretty much everything. I, personally, did not like that feeling. But he also made me feel like shit about it. I’m not in a position to be able to just pay off my debt and, I’m not ashamed to say, if I had a boyfriend I would consider letting him if he offered. It would just depend on the situation. Do what feels right for you.
I honestly don’t think it’s anyones business that he paid off your debt that’s between you two!!
So happy you had the talk and as hard as it is not to plan out next steps and where it goes I think he has the right idea to just let it happen naturally.
I also get the jealousy thing and totally am like that in relationships but try not to go all crazy on him. It’s one thing to have the thoughts it’s another to ‘punish’ him or get mad at him for no reason. I know easier said than done.
But so glad you two had the talk and are back together I really think with a bit more communication you guys can make it for the long haul!!
I’m one of the ones who doesn’t see the credit card thing as totally horrible. Sure it would have been great to pay it off yourself but to me I see it as Bradys investing in them and their relationship. If he went out and bought a ring or piece of jewellery for that price it’s really no different. This one benefits their future and is practical (unless Reese turns around and goes on a major spree!). Just my two cents – why would a guy pay off a bill like that if he saw no future or was just using Reese. As for the insecurity/jealousy – I think some is natural, especially given the history. I also know for myself, sometimes I project my own thoughts or “what I would” do in situations. What Brady may do/not do may not be how Reese did/has done it so if its easy to believe everyone acts or feels the way we do. Somehow you need to find a way to trust him unless there is a reason not to though, or it will kill any chance of making it. Truthfully in some of the ways Brady has responded, I think he enjoys her response at least a tiny bit.
I think you’re spot on here Mandy. Brady’s paying off this debt is not the act of someone who is cheating or not taking Reese seriously. That’s not something someone does casually. Unless Brady is secretly a billionaire and the money means nothing to him lol. But it is true that this act benefits their future and shows his investment in the relationship. Reese that is something to hold on to when you are having doubts.
That’s good that your debt free now. And a little help is never a bad thing. The credit card bill being paid off is a blessing.
I’ve never commented before, but I feel the need to share a similar situation like yours. I had a friend, who oddly enough is also a pharmacist, that knew she was going to spend the rest of her life with her boyfriend. When her boyfriend got accepted into grad school, she paid off $25,000ish dollars in student loan debt of his bc she didn’t want to start their lives together in debt when they moved for his schooling. Honestly, if the other person can afford it, and wants to do it, I think it’s a great thing. They ended up getting married and have a baby now 🙂
I want a baby!
Ha! Get a new puppy to practice with, and Tucker might enjoy a playmate! 😉
Holy shit 25k is a lot of money. That girl is a keeper. And her heart was/is in the right place. That’s a good reason to not have a worry like debt on your shoulders
I should also add that there is a prenup involved so he has to pay that back should they divorce lol
Reese…come back to us! We need an update