Kendra had us all over for dinner on Tuesday evening. She made some sort of chicken, broccoli and rice dish that was delicious. Ever since John moved in, Kendra has turned into a complete grandma/stay at home wife. We used to do everything together and get crazy every weekend. Now I barely see her. Just like I suspected.
After we left Kendra’s, Preston came over. I hadn’t heard from Brady at all since Friday night so I wasn’t sure if we were still going to dinner. I know we were both completely trashed when we agreed on it, but still. Drunk words = sober thoughts?
Preston convinced me to text him to confirm and before I could talk myself out of it, I said, “Are we still on for dinner tomorrow?”
Almost immediately he responded, “If you want.”
I read it over several times. “If you want.” Excuse me? Of course I wanted to! Didn’t he want to, too? Before I could show Preston and have a complete freak out, Brady texted me again.
“I will probably be at the hospital until 8:30 or 9, but we could do something after that.”
That was more like it.
“Okay, just let me know. :-)” I said back.
Preston helped me find an outfit that would work no matter what we decided to do (late fancy dinner, late casual dinner, drinks, Taco Bell, rendezvous in his car, etc). We picked out a romper, a printed kimono and wedges with my hair in a fishtail braid. I hope he thinks I look cute.
When I got to work on Wednesday, Whitney followed me into my office.
“We need to talk,” she said.
“Okay… What about?” I said back.
She shut my door for privacy. “The comments you said to Aron on Monday were extremely inappropriate and unprofessional.”
I had no idea what the girl was talking about. I vaguely remembered talking to Aron on Monday, but I couldn’t even recall what was said.
“That I told Diana about you and BJ, that I’m drama, that I wanted to get you fired because I’m jealous if you. He told Amanda everything. Reese, we are all adults here. There is no need to gossip.”
Wtf? I had to stand there thinking for a moment. Then I remembered that on Monday I talked to Aron in the break room during lunch. He asked how I was doing after the whole situation and I told him that I was fine and it sucked that people were gossiping. He mentioned that Amanda told him that Whitney was the one who informed Diana about BJ and me and I rolled my eyes and said I wasn’t surprised. That was the extent of our conversation. I didn’t elaborate on the Whitney issue (even though I wanted to) and certainly didn’t claim she was jealous of me or anything like that. And there were a lot of people in the break room while we were talking, including Amanda, but I never said anything directly to her. Which means that not only was Amanda eavesdropping, but she also lied about what she heard. Unless Aron lied to her about what we talked about, but that doesn’t seen like something he would do.
“Whitney,” I said as calmly as I could. “I didn’t say that about you at all. One of them is lying. If you want to get caught up with what a bunch of people are talking about then that’s on you, but I’m not. I’m not doing this. I am almost twenty five years old and I have a job to do.”
Whitney saw how upset I was getting and her face softened. “Really? I didn’t think you would say that, but I just wanted to make sure.”
I didn’t say anything so she continued.
“All of this is getting blown out of proportion. I don’t know what happened with you and BJ, but it’s really none of my business and I don’t want to get involved at all…”
“You’ve already involved yourself.”
Whitney looked frightened. “I think BJ is the real problem here. I’m so glad he’s gone.”
“Okay, well I’m going to get to work. Have a nice day,” I said, ushering her out.
Ugh. So I’m really irritated with Amanda/Aron/Whitney for trying to create even more drama.
After work, I stopped and got a facial and a mani/pedi. I needed to relax before hanging out with Brady. I started getting ready at 7:00 so I had plenty of time.
Brady texted me at 8:40: “I’m just getting off work so I can come get you whenever you’re ready.”
Obviously, I was already ready and just sitting on my couch drinking a Red Bull and watching Keeping Up With The Kardashians. I texted back, “I’m actually ready now.”
I hoped I didn’t sound too desperate and available.
“I’ll be there in 15 mins,” he said back.
Naturally, for the next fifteen minutes while I waited, I downed the rest of my Red Bull plus a glass of wine. Brady called when he got to my apartment and he was double parked in front of my building.
“Hi!” I said, getting in. Brady looked hot in his dress shirt with his tie undone and hanging freely around his neck. Clearly he couldn’t wait to take it off.
We talked about our days then he asked if I was hungry. I told him I was. He drove us to a little ethnic restaurant not far from my apartment. He said that he loved it and would be surprised if I didn’t too.
The place was small, dark and intimate and we snagged a table near the door. It was a little modest given his background and how much I know he brings home yearly, but I liked the vibe.
“So what’s good?” I asked, opening the menu.
“They have a platter I usually get. It has chicken, beef, lentils, potatoes, and bread. It is plenty of food for two people,” Brady said. He was so laidback and chill on Friday, but he was back to being formal and uptight.
As the night went on he started relaxing and I could tell I was making him more comfortable. He was even kind of flirting. I told him about New York City/Rob and Brady said, “I guess you can’t really blame him for being attracted to you.”
Which was sweet. And then he said, “It’s good you had the sagacity not to allow things to go further with him.”
I consider myself pretty intelligent for the most part, but I’ve never heard that word before in my life. He used several words I’ve never heard before and I made a mental note to start reading the dictionary while I do my squats. Then there was a joke about Napoleon that I didn’t understand. Brady explained it once then when I still didn’t get it, he said nevermind. I haven’t taken a history class in four years and Napoleon just isn’t someone who stuck with me. I even went home and Googled him to see if I could understand the joke, but to no avail.
We finished dinner and stayed at the restaurant until they closed. Afterwards we weren’t ready to go home so we walked to a little bar down the block. We got drinks and sat on their outdoor patio. I found out that he actually owns the duplex he lives in and rents to Chris which is super impressive because he’s only 26(ish?) and it’s a prestigious neighborhood. I can’t even imagine how many hundreds of thousands of dollars it costs him. I told him that I’m looking to purchase a home within the next few years (which is true, but my down payment is currently hanging in my closet so). He said he would get me in contact with his realtor who would be able to help me.
We talked about how we enjoy going to the beach and he suggested we go this weekend together. And then he said we could invite Carly and Chris which I didn’t agree with but whatever. As long as I get to see Brady shirtless.
After two drinks, he drove me home. We had a fun and friendly evening, it wasn’t super romantic, but it felt right. I realized that every relationship doesn’t have to be driven by sex like me and Eric’s. He leaned over and hugged me before I got out of his car and then when we pulled apart he kissed me. I don’t know if he was trying to aim for my lips and missed or if he meant to kiss me on my cheek, but it landed in the middle on the corner of my mouth.
13 thoughts on “i need to read the dictionary.”
Sagicity? I bet you made all of us run to a dictionary of some kind after reading that!
And the good night kiss? What, is he 17 and hasn’t ever kissed a girl?
so you’ve never heard that word before either? and I think he’s just a really nice guy. he’s cute. 🙂
Sagacity. Never heard the word but I’m guessing it has to do with being wise, is sage. I don’t think there’s any chemistry with Brady and Reese. He’s a great catch but in the beginning of every relationship there is an amazing physical attraction and I’m not feeling it here. I think Reese should keep her options open. The work drama sucks. Going forward don’t trust anyone.
you could be right.
Ugh, who the heck speaks like Brady? Lol. I can’t help thinking that he’s apprehensive and moving super slow because of his past relationships. I like him and hope that things heat up a little on the beach date!
I think Chris was totally right when he told Carly that Brady is not aggressive enough with girls. it is definitely becoming apparent.
When I was still dating, and there seemed like there might be a lack of chemistry or something a little “off” even though the guy was good on paper, I employed the 3 date rule. First date you’re meeting each other’s representatives, second date second chance, and date 3 is the do or die. If I didn’t feel it by then I would break things off, because a lot of guys expect sex at that point, and generally that’s also the point where you’re beginning to really explore possibilities with someone. I tended to not want to waste my time if I just wasn’t feeling it.
Refraining from the work drama is wise. I’m really enjoying reading this blog!
I don’t necessarily think there’s a lack of chemistry, I just think he’s not going to make a move on me first. but the three date rule is smart. def something I’m going to keep in mind.
it means.. sound judgment, a good sense of awareness. I’ve heard the word before.
I know that now. I’m glad your college education was clearly better than mine. 😩
Ah! I’m so team Brady. I think I’m more hopeful for your relationship than any of my own :-p
There’s nothing wrong with starting slow! And hopefully each time you see each other he’s less reserved. It’s hard to know what makes a person behave the way they do… I think you guys could be great together 👍😉 (blame yourself you let me emoji….)
Get him drunk! He’s bolder when he’s tipsy.
I have to say though, sometimes it’s nice to go out with a guy who actually wants to get to know you before mauling you. You know, as long as they get to the mauling part eventually!